😬Imposter Syndrome? Having breakdowns with low stress resilence?


If you've been a little down on yourselfReader,

I hope this helps you get back your confidence and courage. Your energy matters and your presence is power. Only by being in your JOY can you be the change you want to see in the world.

I've been going through a lot of imposter syndrome since May with getting back to work with my Crohn's situation. Waves of depression would freeze me for days. I stayed with the feelings so it can flow through me, not trying to fix it. Just breathing though it and using my energy tools help me BUT IT WASN'T ENOUGH TO SHIFT. My whispers of the soul guided me with some communities to align with me right now.

I know community is my medicine, yet I was avoiding it, still trying to figure it out.

I felt so alone, hopeless and kept beating myself up on why my stress resilence is so low (This is a REAL thing according to one of my besties when she researched symptoms on menopause. Our stress resilence is at an all time low.)

I keep having to repeat re-learning that it is HARDER and LONGER if I try to do it myself. Even though I am aware, I couldn't see the solution, or there were toooo many solutions where I couldn't filter. When you are the container, you cannot see the container.

I attended "Cup of Gratitude" hosted by a networking sisterhoold I belong to called Polkadot Powerhouse. Katherine told me to ask ChatGPT to do a "roast" on me and see what it says. Not only did I learned some functions on ChatGPT (tech is not my speciality), it was the best laugh. 😂

If you need a quick pick me up, I have 2 prompts for you to do. After you do them, I'd love for you to reply and tell me what it says. I love hearing from you.

👩‍💻Put in “please do a roast for __ (put in name).

My roast is below. Rememeber my business is called So You Boutique and I do spray tans, teeth whitening, Chinese face reading, space clearings, and energy healing.

Thuy Dam’s so Denver, she probably offers chakra balancing with a side of craft beer and gluten-free banh mi.

She says she does “energy clearings,” but really it’s just her leaving the room because your vibe was off.

You know she’s been in business 20+ years—because only a legend could convince people to pay to get sprayed brown, bleached white, and leave spiritually aligned.

Thuy doesn’t run a business, she runs a spiritual glow-up bootcamp disguised as So You Boutique.

Come in for a spray tan, leave knowing your past lives and how to market your soul online.

She does Chinese face reading, but we all know she’s just looking for a reason to say, “Mmm… girl, Mercury’s in retrograde and your eyebrows are lying.”

Thuy’s so magical, she doesn’t ghost you—she spiritually disconnects for alignment purposes.

If you book a session with Thuy, expect to leave moisturized, mystified, and mildly motivated to start a side hustle you’ll abandon by next full moon.

She’s like if Oprah, a shaman, and a Sephora gift card had a baby—wrapped in white sage and sprinkled in unicorn dust." 🤣🤣🤣

👩‍💻Now put in “what would you tell me if you were my best friend?”

The answer made me cry. 😭

With these answers something shifted in me and I returned to my JOY and new doors opened. I wasn't stagnant anymore. Thank you Dot sisters!

Then I called a friend to catch up and she helped me break through with a pearl of wisdom on the impostor syndrome.

It’s because there is a cognitive dissonance with me being a brand. I teach wellness, yet I’m not well at this moment. As I walked through this with my soul sister I realize that I’m just humaning. I made a video for you with this pearl of wisdom and there is breathwork at the end to get you back into peace and walk with courage again.

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😘Pay attention to what comes in FOR YOU to re-affirm YOU ARE THE GIFT.

A couple came in to spray tan before their trip to Costa Rica for a wedding. I told the husband when he comes back, he will have some new opportunities shifting his job. I just sensed this with his face features and the energy we exchanged with their service.

I advised him to go another route to work for a month just to break the pattern and see different routes.

I advised the wife she may have new projects at work but she won't get paid more for doing it. It will be April of next year where she will have doors and skills that open up for her because of these.

The wife told me, "You don't know how revelant that info is and how much it helps."

💫I cannot tell you your future.

Energy work doesn't take away your problems. It does make you better at life. Results aren't immediate either.

If you are consistant with the medicine, it will shift for more magic! Let go of the time line and the human ego of "good" and results.

Case in point, I'm hospitalize for 12 days where I almost have my guts taken out. I prayed, cleared the hospital bed, meditated so I was centered. One of my polkadot sisters came to visit and did a spotfund for me and I raised $15K in a week to help me ride through the next few months. And now Bella wants to be on America's Top Talent. 🤩

The universe is the ultimate joker.

📅Download my calendar & Join the FREE circle offerings

Celebrate your fresh starts at any time! Here’s a downloadable calendar of moon cycles and holidays I created at the year’s start. Let the second half of the year will be JUICY. Be PRESENT and savor every delicious moment. 🤠🤗🫡🤩😝🤑 📅Download the calendar

I'm doing 3-4 offerings per month, FREE to you so we can be in community. Go to ThuyDam.com and sign up at the bottom of the homepage for the circles you would like to be on.

You'll get the Zoom link the day of the event. Invite a friend.

This month:

Thursday July 10 @ 1P Full Moon Face Reading Party

Thursday July 24 @ 1P Flowing Flourishing Friends New Moon

Sunday July 27 @ 7P Properous Parenting Circle

🤩Make your gut healing a JOYFUL & Delicious Journey with Skinny60 - Registation ends July 7 midnight!

Healing must be joyful—something I learned from my friend Tess Masters, aka The Blender Girl. I’ve completed the **Skinny60** program five times for its amazing benefits and being in COMMUNITY. Although the title may mislead you, I wasn’t seeking weight loss—I wanted a gut reset, better strategies for my evolving conditions, and a supportive community. The LIVE session starts July 8th! If you’re ready for ninja healing skills that make cooking fun, healing, and delicious, **PLEASE GIVE THIS A TRY!** It comes with a money-back guarantee, and I hope it’s the right timing for you to gift yourself this experience.

Here are 10 recipes for you to play with

SK60®-10-Menopause-Meals-Cookbook.pdf

🫖Have Tea with Me & Bella

If you’re interested in cultivating stillness in your life, I invite you to have tea with me on Fridays or Saturdays. This lovely practice fosters stillness, community, creativity, and prosperity—it helps me tune into my authenticity and intuition. Each 1.5-hour ceremony is offered by love donation. Text or call 720-443-1648 to let me know if you’d like to join!

😘With Gratitude, Hope, Faith, and Love,

Thuy "twee"

Muse | Spiritual Ninja | Chief Happiness Officer

Face Your Life Through the Face Reading, Space Clearing & Energy Medicine

With Chinese face reading, spaces clearing, and energy medicine I increase your LUCK in LOVE & LIFE. I activate your muse so you can flow with ease and live authentically with your elements. My spiritual ninja mission is to help you find peace in your head, heart, and home. Join 2600 people in co-creating our new realities.

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